凱莉自由隨筆

People easily make a big mistake
To make decision for others. Or try to get how they feel when things happened.
Even I,
the answer I frequently use:
“yes, I can understand it” or “
yep, I know how you feel now”

These days I found that it’s such a stupid response.
We can never know how other feel inside.
Though psychologists come out tons of data,
it is still “supposing” ideas.

It’s just like
“She must feel down when she divorce with her partner.”
Holly shit, who knows?
Maybe her husband is an alcoholic, or probably she fell in love with others.

“I guess he feel bad after teacher failed him.”
Maybe he just cries it out loud and thanks God he can escape from military serving this year.

“I do it for you”
that is also ridiculous.
Never make decision for others.

Only you know how you feel.

If you cannot get the feeling from others,
then, you get the idea what I am talking about.

Human are unique.
There is no one can suppose some answer for others.
You are not me; you don’t know how I feel.
You are not me; you don’t know which decision is better for me.
I have my choice,
no matter what people said, I just made it for myself.

dont pretend you are me,
dont pretend you are others and try to grab some ideas


If you don’t get it, then, you get it.